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Anxious Before Bed? Try this 10 Minute Guided Meditation for Sleep

Updated: Jun 30





6 Tips to Support Sleep Reset

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia -CBT-I

A practical guide to help retrain your brain and body for deeper, more consistent sleep.


1. Set a Consistent Wake Time (Anchor Your Rhythm)

Your wake time is more powerful than your bedtime.

* Choose one wake-up time and stick to it 7 days a week

* Avoid “catch-up sleep” on weekends

* Get light exposure within 30–60 minutes of waking

Why it works: This strengthens your circadian rhythm and helps reset your internal sleep clock.


2. Create a “Sleep Window” (Not Unlimited Time in Bed)


More time in bed does not equal better sleep.

* Only go to bed when sleepy (not just tired)

* Limit time in bed to match actual sleep time

* Gradually expand sleep window as sleep improves

Goal: Strengthen sleep efficiency (time asleep vs. time in bed)


3. Re-Train the Brain: Bed = Sleep Only

Your brain learns associations quickly—CBT-I retrains them.

* Use bed only for sleep (and intimacy, if applicable)

* No scrolling, work, TV, or worrying in bed

* If awake >20–30 minutes, get up and reset in another space

Why it works: It breaks the “bed = wakefulness/stress” loop.


4. Calm the Nervous System Before Bed


Your body cannot sleep in a high-alert state.

Try a 10–20 minute wind-down:

* Slow breathing (longer exhale than inhale)

* Gentle stretching or yoga

* Warm shower or bath

* Low light, no stimulating content

Optional thought shift:

“I don’t need to force sleep. I’m giving my body permission to rest.”


5. Work With Your Thoughts (Not Against Them)

Insomnia is often fueled by mental pressure.


Common unhelpful thoughts:

* “I have to sleep right now.”

* “Tomorrow will be ruined if I don’t sleep.”

Try replacing with:

* “Rest still helps my body, even if sleep comes later.”

* “My body knows how to sleep when it’s ready.”

Goal: Reduce performance pressure around sleep.


6. Build a “Return to Sleep” Plan for Night Wakings


Waking up is normal—staying stuck awake is what keeps insomnia going.

If you wake up:

* Don’t check the clock

* Keep lights low

* Do something calm (breathing, reading something neutral)

* Return to bed only when sleepy again

Key shift: You’re training your brain that nighttime wakefulness is temporary and safe.



 
 
 

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